An initialism for Forced Away From It All, fafia (rhymes with raffia) means leaving fandom for reasons other than your own desire.

Common reasons are lack of funds to participate, a demanding career, too much schoolwork, ill health, or the demands of family life, particularly in "mixed marriages" — fans who marry mundanes often become fafiated.

Fans fafiated by marriage include:

See also Gafia.

from Fancyclopedia 2 ca. 1959
A variant of gafia; "Forced Away From It All."